1 - get $$$$
2 - buy designer clothing
3 - be a boss ass bitch
4 - die
Someone on instagram uploaded a video of a girl dancing at Stereosonic this weekend. In the background you can hear someone saying ‘doesn’t she know she’s fat?’. Like, uhm, what does that even mean? That she sound be sitting at home, watching tv with a coke in her hand and a burger and fries on her lap instead of enjoying herself and dancing at a festival?
As women, we are taught to be tiny. To have small bodies, to never be imposing. The ideal of our gender are thin and childlike, hairless and dainty. We are defined by our bodies; defined by our control over them. We are taught to obsess over our physicality and to be repulsed by our desires and intelligences.
We are taught to walk scared late at night. We cradle our keys between our perfectly manicured fingers, walking gracefully like a baby antelope in a herd of lions. That our virginity defines our character. That I am a frigid bitch if I do not fuck him, and a dirty slut if I do.
early 2000s hip hop and rnb keeps me young